{"id":9251,"date":"2020-01-23T09:38:25","date_gmt":"2020-01-23T15:38:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/?p=9251"},"modified":"2026-02-26T13:39:35","modified_gmt":"2026-02-26T19:39:35","slug":"how-can-i-find-god","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/2020\/01\/23\/how-can-i-find-god\/","title":{"rendered":"How can I find God?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Stress warning: Content includes suicidal thoughts.<\/em><\/p>\n

What would you say if a friend with no religious affiliation asked you the simple question: How can I find God?<\/p>\n

This is the scenario posed to the young and the old, the famous and the not-famous and those of a variety of religious preferences who contribute their voices to the book \u201cHow can I find God? The Famous and Not-So-Famous Consider the Quintessential Question,\u201d edited by Father James Martin, S.J.<\/p>\n

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The answers vary, as does the life experience of those who Martin questions. But a few themes do stand out, including the consideration that God is found in the people around us, the invisible love of God made visible, and in our own life experiences. The book also begs a poignant question: are we finding God or being found by God? Joan Chittister says, \u201cNo one can help a fish to find the ocean. The answer is clear: There is no one who can help us find what we already have.\u201d She is proclaiming that God is all around us, already finding us, already in our grasp.<\/p>\n

Stanley Hauerwas puts it more directly: \u201cWhat do I do now that God has found me? \u2026 Such a God is not easily found because we cannot find that which as near to us as our next breath and as far from us as the silence that surrounds all language.\u201d God, I know, has already found me, but may also remain elusive as mystery.<\/p>\n

Maybe that\u2019s because seeking and finding always go together. As Huston Smith says, \u201cFinding God is not like finding a mislaid object, which ends the search.\u201d Gregory of Nyssa put this point definitively: \u201cTo seek God is to find him; to find God is to seek him.\u201d<\/p>\n

I love these answers! They make me seek God even more. God has already found me and I wake up to that reality. I cannot find God like I find my lost hairbrush, because the mystery of God cannot be contained, and in the finding I discover more seeking. God is in the daily reality of my own life, in my particulars and in yours.<\/p>\n

How would you answer this basic question: How can I find God?<\/p>\n

I find God in my daily experiences and in the people around me, but I especially find God in suffering. Maybe suffering is the moment when I stop pretending everything is okay, become more honest and vulnerable and allow God to find me.<\/p>\n

When I was 20, everything stopped making sense. I don\u2019t remember the immediate event that caused it but I was curled up on the bed and I started to scream. I screamed so long that they called the college campus security to check on me. As I was screaming, I had a little conversation with God.<\/p>\n

Me: God, I don\u2019t think I can go on any longer. I think I need to die.<\/p>\n

God: That way out is cheating. It\u2019s not really an option.<\/p>\n

Me: Then what can I do?<\/p>\n

And then all the words stopped and I had a vision. I saw lava flowing freely. Then I saw lava crusted over. Like a video I had seen of a volcano exploding underwater, the fiery, red-hot river turned quickly to a black crust when it hit the cold water. The vision became an immediate knowing, the deepest truth I have ever known in my life. There is a place or time where God\u2019s love flows endlessly. Here on Earth, that love gets blocked and crusted over. We are here on Earth to learn the not-so-simple lesson of how to love. This learning comes with the assurance that God\u2019s love is holding us even through such pain.<\/p>\n

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That truth has stayed with me ever since. When I get lost and discouraged, when my lava-love gets crusted over, I know God\u2019s love is stronger, holding me \u2018till I can get found again. The people who love me help me to see God, especially when I cannot do it on my own.<\/p>\n

Once, when I was in a deep depression, a sister in my community threw a lifeline to me. Knowing that I was having a hard time loving myself or feeling love of any kind, she said, \u201cLet us love you until you are able to do it yourself again.\u201d She and my other sisters, my family and my friends loved me back to life. They became the face of God to me.<\/p>\n

I think that Allison Janik, a seventh grader, says its best: \u201cIf you talk to babies and they don\u2019t talk back, you still know they love you. I think that\u2019s how it is with God.\u201d That\u2019s how it is with God: an endless love-like a river of lava, even when you can\u2019t hear or feel that love. Like the fish in the ocean, God is all around us.<\/p>\n

ABOUT THE RABBLE ROUSER<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Sister-Sarah-Hennessey-cake-face\"<\/p>\n

Sarah Hennessy is a Franciscan Sister of Perpetual Adoration based in La Crosse, Wisconsin. She grew up in North Carolina as an active Quaker and became Catholic in 2000. For her, Jesus\u2019 Messy Business includes falling in love with Christ AND with the People of God! Her heart is on fire for her Franciscan community, poetry, singing, and accompanying people through birth, death and the living that comes in between. She currently ministers as a spiritual director at Franciscan Spirituality Center<\/strong><\/a> in La Crosse, Wisconsin, and is a Franciscan Hospitality House<\/strong><\/a> volunteer.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Stress warning: Content includes suicidal thoughts. What would you say if a friend with no religious affiliation asked you the simple question: How can I find God? This is the scenario posed to the young and the old, the famous and the not-famous and those of a variety of religious preferences who contribute their voices...","protected":false},"author":7668253,"featured_media":9258,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","episode_type":"","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[115341],"tags":[698755374,970061,5551,401,16429270,293532,7816,63959,60713200,1215228,3785,5004,13078,853,562,18002,2188635,241748,106],"series":[698756626],"class_list":["post-9251","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-equity-and-justice-equity-and-justice","tag-community","tag-conversation-with-god","tag-depression","tag-faith","tag-father-james-martin","tag-finding-god","tag-god","tag-gods-love","tag-how-can-i-find-god","tag-lava","tag-love","tag-mental-health","tag-mystery","tag-prayer","tag-questions","tag-searching","tag-spiritual-seekers","tag-struggle","tag-truth","series-messy-jesus-business"],"acf":[],"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/how-can-i-find-god-book-cover.jpg","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/wp-content\/plugins\/seriously-simple-podcasting\/assets\/images\/no-album-art.png","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/feed\/podcast\/messy-jesus-business","embedCode":"

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