{"id":8070,"date":"2018-08-22T10:41:36","date_gmt":"2018-08-22T15:41:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/?p=8070"},"modified":"2026-02-26T13:42:13","modified_gmt":"2026-02-26T19:42:13","slug":"being-part-of-a-church-broken-by-sex-abuse-and-lies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/2018\/08\/22\/being-part-of-a-church-broken-by-sex-abuse-and-lies\/","title":{"rendered":"Being part of a Church broken by sex abuse and lies"},"content":{"rendered":"

Imagine you were violently attacked and dropped off a balcony into a dark alley, and somehow you survived. Your body is broken, bloody, mangled; you are twisted and contorted into a mess upon cracked asphalt. Your arms and legs are shattered. The most private parts of you have been violated. All of your muscles ache as if they are being stabbed with a thousand spears.<\/p>\n

You are gasping for life, for help. You feel all alone. You are helpless. You see no way out.<\/p>\n

This broken body is yours. It is everyone\u2019s who is a member of the Roman Catholic Church. The horribly broken, disfigured, wounded, twisted and mangled Church. The Church is the Body of Christ and we are the Church; we are the broken Body of Christ.<\/p>\n

This body, the broken and disfigured and hurting body, is the Church that I have dedicated my life to as a Franciscan Sister. This is the body I love. I would not be me without my participation in this body: at this point, I can\u2019t imagine my life in any other form.<\/p>\n

And, when all the wounds are festering, infected \u2014 when it is apparent that this body is disfigured and ugly \u2014 it is only appropriate for each of us to struggle. To lament. To feel violently angry. To weep. To demand change.<\/p>\n

The wounds of the body of Christ \u2014 the Church that I love dearly \u2014 have been exposed over and over in my lifetime. They first appeared when I was a college student and falling in love with the body, when I was being fed and experiencing a sense of belonging in its arms. And now, again, within the past week, when the results of the Pennsylvania Grand Jury investigation into sexual abuse and cover-ups became public, it has become visible to the masses how truly sick and broken this body is. It can be an ungodly sight, too awful to look at that. So ugly that a temptation nudges me to turn away, to decide that I can\u2019t be part of it, that I want nothing to do with it, that it simply hurts way too much to be near the brokenness, the festering wounds.<\/p>\n

But I can\u2019t divorce myself from the body to which I belong. And, I know that the body cannot heal or become strong again without tiny little me being a part of it, either.<\/p>\n

I am disgusted. The corrupt state of my body is due to the failure of those who are meant to be representatives of its head. Made sleazy by power and sickened by an evil that twists the sacred and holy \u2014 sexuality, service, sacramentality \u2014 into demons of torture and doubt, these men have damaged the body that helps me know meaning and belonging.<\/p>\n

And for other members of the body, their pain is greater than anything I could know. They have been made powerless by those in power, they have been tortured by those who were supposed to be instruments of healing and peace. No attempt to make things right by any other member of the body will ever be an adequate response to their pain. Their voice of courage is a gift of hope to the rest of us. My chest aches with the sorrow of loss as separation is inevitable.<\/p>\n

The body is likely to remain permanently disfigured. I don\u2019t know how I could ever defend its goodness and beauty to the little ones again \u2014 to the members who have been hurt the worst; to those who have lost their faith and trust that the body is made for healing, not harm. They have every reason to argue with me if I try to teach them that the body is good and holy. I wonder if the body will ever be strong again, but I can\u2019t stop thinking about how the body is made whole only through its weakness. The agony of paradox is disorienting and frustrating right now.<\/p>\n

Except, somehow, below all the pain and misery is a feeling that is deeper and stronger than any other: I still love this body. I do believe in its goodness, its holiness. I know that many \u2014most \u2014 of its members are willing to love to the point of self-sacrifice, they are willing to lay down their lives for their friends and enemies. Joy and love radiate from the face. A mercy flows from the wounds. Compassion runs through its still beating heart. Its lips are uttering constant prayers for forgiveness, for help, for reconciliation and peace.<\/p>\n

Eventually, grace can uplift the body and help it from the concrete. But it will take a lot of work and repentance, a lot of restructuring and consideration of what caused the body to get to such bad shape. It will take a rescue from the Holy Spirit and all the angels and saints, before it goes off for a stint in reconstructive surgery and rehab. No matter how the recovery process goes the scars will be ugly; the body will forever wear the history.<\/p>\n

Those days are a long way off, I am afraid. For now, we pause to admit the truth. We are broken and disfigured. We need help and healing. Much must change. But for now, the body is broken. The body is weak. The body is a mess of struggle. And it\u2019s awful.<\/p>\n

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RESOURCES FOR READERS ON CATHOLIC SEX ABUSE<\/h6>\n

Pope Francis’ Letter to The People of God about the sex abuse crisis. August 20, 2018<\/a><\/p>\n

Pennsylvania\u00a0Grand Jury Report<\/a><\/p>\n

LCWR Statement on Sexual Abuse by Clergy<\/a><\/p>\n

Statement of Catholic Theologians, Educators, Parishioners, and Lay Leaders on Clergy Sexual Abuse In the United States<\/a><\/p>\n

U.S. Church\u2019s Response to Sex Abuse Shows Progress, but Questions Remain (A Timeline of the Catholic Church\u2019s Response to Abuse Allegations Dating Back Several Decades) Catholic News Service<\/em>. August 17, 2018.<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cPrayer for Angry Catholics\u201d by James Martin, S. J. America<\/em>. June 6, 2012.<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cFor Catholics, Gradual Reform is No Longer an Option\u201d By Kathleen Sprows Cummings, NY Times<\/em>, August 17, 2018<\/a><\/p>\n

Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n

Take Action:\u00a0<\/strong>Stop Child Sexual Abuse<\/strong><\/h6>\n

If you see child sexual abuse, have a reasonable suspicion of sexual abuse or your child has been sexually abused, call 911 or your local police immediately.<\/p>\n

If you suspect abuse, call the National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-4-A-Child or visit the Child Help Hotline<\/a>. Trained crisis operators staff the lines 24\/7 to answer your questions. If necessary, they will show you how to report in your local area.<\/p>\n

Child pornography is a federal crime. If you see or suspect images that may be child pornography, report it to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children CyberTip Line<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Imagine you were violently attacked and dropped off a balcony into a dark alley, and somehow you survived. Your body is broken, bloody, mangled; you are twisted and contorted into a mess upon cracked asphalt. Your arms and legs are shattered. The most private parts of you have been violated. All of your muscles ache...","protected":false},"author":4071079,"featured_media":8115,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","episode_type":"","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2178641],"tags":[5003,2339,33397,354011,27669,74465388,297690,7104,19711,53318,2416,698755374,488056,401,7816,16950,16520,3785,7383,4908,116,386641,33730667,12529,82348],"series":[698756626],"class_list":["post-8070","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-prayer-and-spirituality","tag-abuse","tag-anger","tag-bodies","tag-body-of-christ","tag-broken","tag-broken-body-of-christ","tag-brokenness","tag-catholic","tag-catholic-church","tag-child-abuse","tag-church","tag-community","tag-coverups","tag-faith","tag-god","tag-grief","tag-lies","tag-love","tag-pain","tag-power","tag-religion","tag-sex-abuse","tag-sex-abuse-crisis","tag-sin","tag-suffering","series-messy-jesus-business"],"acf":[],"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/ricky-turner-579980-unsplash-scaled.jpg","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/wp-content\/plugins\/seriously-simple-podcasting\/assets\/images\/no-album-art.png","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/feed\/podcast\/messy-jesus-business","embedCode":"

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