{"id":7830,"date":"2018-03-21T13:02:24","date_gmt":"2018-03-21T18:02:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/?p=7830"},"modified":"2026-02-26T13:42:45","modified_gmt":"2026-02-26T19:42:45","slug":"lents-inevitable-disappointment-and-the-constant-turn-to-god","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/2018\/03\/21\/lents-inevitable-disappointment-and-the-constant-turn-to-god\/","title":{"rendered":"Lent’s inevitable disappointment and the constant turn to God"},"content":{"rendered":"

Praying with Fr. James’ Martin SJ’s Examen app<\/a> recently, I heard the words, “Lent is drawing to a close. For Christians, that means not only is there some anticipation for the celebration of Easter, but also some inevitable disappointment about your Lenten spiritual practices …”<\/p>\n

“Inevitable disappointment.”<\/p>\n

The words froze me still. And completely validated my experience. Are you saying, prayer podcast creators, that everyone else is just as awful at fasting as I am? Are you telling me no one succeeds in the spiritual life, that none of us are actually excellent at being disciplined?<\/p>\n

My mind wandered into the pit of questions, momentarily distracting me from praying the Examen. Why do we work so hard to grow closer to God, to journey on the path of holiness, if we know that we will stumble? Why do we remain dedicated through the trials, even if our efforts become floppy and we mess up so much? Could the trick of Lent actually be that it doesn’t really matter what penance we do, but why<\/em> we do it?<\/p>\n

What if the actual point of Lenten penance is that it teaches us our desperate need for God?<\/p>\n

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“thorns in the desert” by Julia Walsh FSPA<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

I’ve been here before, much more in touch with the darkness inside of me at the end of Lent. I seem to repeat my patterns every Lenten cycle; I practically write every year about my failure to make it through.<\/a><\/p>\n

This year, though, I don’t feel like a failure. I feel grateful to have gotten in touch with the Truth: I am a sinner, a woman who must be fully rely on God. Only with God’s grace am I able to offer my broken, half-hearted self and allow God to make it into something beautiful –something that can be used for God’s purposes.<\/p>\n

I can have faith in God’s presence, God’s eagerness to help me grow and recover, again and again, from the darkness in me. I can have faith that God will find a way to use my weak and broken self, and make me more wholly into a woman made for God’s purposes. I learned a new Bible verse at the start of Lent, one that has been a comfort to carry me through: Trust in God’s faithful love forever.<\/strong> (Psalm 52:10)<\/p>\n

Even when I fail, God remains faithful. This is what I can trust in, believe in, and rely on.<\/p>\n

So, yes, it is inevitable that I stumble and fail, that I become disappointed with myself and my imperfections.\u00a0But, this isn’t all bad. Each time I become disappointed in my efforts, I see the truth of who I am, I come to know the darkness within me. This causes me to turn to God, to know the power of God’s grace and faithfulness again and again, to open space for God to remake me, which God never seems to grow tired of doing.<\/p>\n

And for all this, I am deeply grateful.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Praying with Fr. James’ Martin SJ’s Examen app recently, I heard the words, “Lent is drawing to a close. For Christians, that means not only is there some anticipation for the celebration of Easter, but also some inevitable disappointment about your Lenten spiritual practices …” “Inevitable disappointment.” The words froze me still. And completely validated...","protected":false},"author":4071079,"featured_media":2308,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","episode_type":"","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2178641],"tags":[148745,5173,106887,62704,3495,401,112349,7816,6406728,18215,5411,20100,698755380,381805,1947089,72809,241748,647597,222631],"series":[698756626],"class_list":["post-7830","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-prayer-and-spirituality","tag-bad-habits","tag-christian-living","tag-conversion","tag-disappointment","tag-failure","tag-faith","tag-faithfulness","tag-god","tag-gospel-living","tag-grace","tag-gratitude","tag-growth","tag-lent","tag-penance","tag-rely-on-god","tag-spiritual-life","tag-struggle","tag-trust-in-god","tag-weakness","series-messy-jesus-business"],"acf":[],"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/100_4418-scaled.jpg","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/wp-content\/plugins\/seriously-simple-podcasting\/assets\/images\/no-album-art.png","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/feed\/podcast\/messy-jesus-business","embedCode":"

Lent’s inevitable disappointment and the constant turn to God<\/a><\/blockquote>