{"id":7662,"date":"2017-12-20T10:00:16","date_gmt":"2017-12-20T16:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/?p=7662"},"modified":"2026-02-26T13:40:21","modified_gmt":"2026-02-26T19:40:21","slug":"metoo-churchtoo-and-the-hope-in-breaking-the-silence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/2017\/12\/20\/metoo-churchtoo-and-the-hope-in-breaking-the-silence\/","title":{"rendered":"#MeToo, #ChurchToo and the hope in breaking the silence"},"content":{"rendered":"

The courage and resilience of survivors<\/a> of sexual assault choosing to share their stories gives me hope.<\/p>\n

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Annemarie Barrett’s original watercolor painting “My Rage, My Voice”<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

The wave of very public accounts of sexual assault and misconduct sweeping the United States, for many, has made what once seemed safe and certain seem suddenly dangerous and frightening.<\/p>\n

For those recently opening their eyes to the harrowing realities of male privilege and power, the stories of sexual assault survivors<\/a> may feel like a threat. Many may feel tempted to distrust<\/a> what is being revealed about our society and opt for outright denial or compulsively blame victims for the violence they endured.<\/p>\n

Many more may be overwhelmed by doubt and confusion, unsure of who to trust as powerful people and institutions expose their failure to protect us.<\/p>\n

There are also many of us who have been treading in the dangerous and frightening uncertainty of living as survivors of sexual assault for some time.<\/p>\n

But now, even if you never have before, is the time to listen to survivors.<\/p>\n

It is the time to reflect on the powerful narratives that have taught us to marginalize the wounded among us, and it is time to invest in believing the experiences of survivors<\/a>.<\/p>\n

The Gospel is fundamentally about listening to the needs of the most marginalized and the personal (and societal) transformation necessary for us to stand with those on the margins, demanding justice from the powers that be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The challenge is learning to apply that call to our daily lives today.<\/p>\n

When we exist within a patriarchal society and an even more patriarchal Church, it is tempting to position Jesus as the patriarchal center in our spiritual lives.<\/p>\n

Too often we lose sight of the ways Jesus practiced dissent and favored decentralization; the ways he spoke truth to men in positions of power and listened to and supported women who were experiencing marginalization.<\/p>\n

Thankfully, the survivors of sexual assault who are choosing to break the silence<\/a> are modeling that dissent and decentralization for us today, so that we too can learn from their example and practice breaking the silence in our own lives.<\/p>\n

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Individual images in “My Rage, My Voice”<\/a> depict the voices of many, coming together.<\/strong><\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

As Heather McGhee<\/a>, president of Demos<\/a>, so powerfully explains, \u201cThis is a moment of reckoning. It is a moment of collective power for women who have felt that they individually could not speak up because men hold so many of the cards in workplaces, in industries. They hold so much of the political power in this country and the economic power. But women are discovering that there is strength in numbers and that they may just be believed. That\u2019s a wonderful thing.\u201d (\u201cDemocracyNow!\u201d<\/a>)<\/em><\/p>\n

It is indeed.<\/p>\n

Just a few months ago, another friend of mine reached out to me to share her recent experience of sexual assault. Her experience not only traumatized her, but her whole family. And though I was filled with grief and rage as I listened to her story, I knew there were few options available for her to pursue justice. Disproportionately, legal action from the justice system and services such as therapy are much harder to access for women of color who have been sexually assaulted<\/a>.<\/p>\n

That was not the first time a friend of mine has been sexually assaulted without justice or professional support and, tragically, I doubt it will be the last.<\/p>\n

As I reflected on the impotence I felt for my inability to offer anything more than accompaniment to this friend, I started thinking about all of the women I know (and don\u2019t know) who have been sexually assaulted and the experiences of trauma that interconnect us.<\/p>\n

And I started to paint.<\/p>\n

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Annemarie puts the finishing touches on “My Rage, My Voice”<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

\u201cMy Rage, My Voice\u201d<\/a> is the watercolor piece which I created while reflecting on the experiences of sexual assault that connect women from all different backgrounds and identities. The piece is about the grief and rage that connect us and the empowering experience of raising our voices to make our truth and our stories known.<\/p>\n

Tarana Burke<\/a>, the founder of the Me Too movement<\/a>, uses the phrase \u201cempowerment through empathy\u201d <\/em><\/a>to describe the process of survivors sharing their stories with one another. And since hearing that term I have wondered to myself, is there a more succinct and accurate way of describing Gospel living than \u201cempowerment through empathy\u201d<\/em>?<\/strong><\/p>\n

It is natural to feel uncertainty and fear in response to the harsh realities of injustice, especially when opening our eyes to those realities for the first time. But the Gospel calls us to choose empathy even when afraid and full of doubt, a call much easier preached than practiced.<\/p>\n

Fortunately, the courage and resilience of those participating in #MeToo<\/a>, #ChurchToo<\/a> and other similar efforts to connect and amplify experiences of survivors of sexual assault are modeling for us how to speak truth to power.<\/p>\n

By learning from their example, we too can learn how to transform silence and complicity into accountability and justice<\/a>. That gives me hope.<\/p>\n

ABOUT THE RABBLE ROUSER<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Annemarie Barrett<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Annemarie-Barrett\"Annemarie (who also served as a blogger<\/a> for Franciscan Mission Service) grew up in the Midwest and now lives in Bolivia, South America. Her spiritual journey has been greatly influenced by the Catholic Worker Movement<\/a> and the Franciscan charism of humble availability and deep solidarity. She has also been influenced and transformed by the unique experience of spending most of her life in Western, capitalist culture and now living for years in Andean culture that is much more communal and rooted in the wisdom of indigenous communities. Today, she lives and farms with her partner and also creates and sells her original art under the name AEB Art<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The courage and resilience of survivors of sexual assault choosing to share their stories gives me hope. The wave of very public accounts of sexual assault and misconduct sweeping the United States, for many, has made what once seemed safe and certain seem suddenly dangerous and frightening. For those recently opening their eyes to the...","protected":false},"author":128772997,"featured_media":7668,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","episode_type":"","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2178641],"tags":[597316281,767653,31779,698755378,177,2567858,119599,11845,789,188247,61437,401,7816,20816,2606,698755382,4908,100201,65427,2100228,538,1095289],"series":[698756626],"class_list":["post-7662","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-prayer-and-spirituality","tag-churchtoo","tag-metoo","tag-accountability","tag-advent","tag-art","tag-break-the-silence","tag-companionship","tag-compassion","tag-creativity","tag-empathy","tag-empowerment","tag-faith","tag-god","tag-hope","tag-justice","tag-peacemaking","tag-power","tag-sexual-assault","tag-social-change","tag-tell-the-truth","tag-violence","tag-womens-voices","series-messy-jesus-business"],"acf":[],"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/my-rage-my-voice-by-annemarie-barrett.jpg","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/wp-content\/plugins\/seriously-simple-podcasting\/assets\/images\/no-album-art.png","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/feed\/podcast\/messy-jesus-business","embedCode":"

#MeToo, #ChurchToo and the hope in breaking the silence<\/a><\/blockquote>