{"id":7226,"date":"2017-05-09T10:57:07","date_gmt":"2017-05-09T15:57:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/?p=7226"},"modified":"2026-02-26T13:41:17","modified_gmt":"2026-02-26T19:41:17","slug":"on-practicing-christian-hospitality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/2017\/05\/09\/on-practicing-christian-hospitality\/","title":{"rendered":"On practicing Christian hospitality"},"content":{"rendered":"

My husband and I recently made the difficult decision to open our guestroom to a family experiencing homelessness in our community.<\/p>\n

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Guests are welcome to Nicole’s “Jesus Room” (Photo courtesy of Nicole Steele Wooldridge)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

We heard about a mother, father and their infant\u00a0who were living on the streets and in dire need of help. A member of my husband\u2019s congregation posted on Facebook that the family, whom she had known for quite a while, were looking for a place to stay. Though she herself would have loved to take them in, she had family visiting and no extra space in her house, so could someone please help?<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t ignore her desperate plea for somebody with a spare room to step up and get the family off the streets.<\/p>\n

You see, we have a wonderful guestroom in our house and it just so happened to be unoccupied at the moment. Our guestroom is the \u201cmaster bedroom\u201d of the home, a converted garage with plenty of space and an en suite bathroom.<\/p>\n

When we bought our house nearly five years ago, my husband and I envisioned this space to be our \u201cJesus Room.\u201d In the spirit of one of our heroes, Dorothy Day, we wanted a dedicated hospitality room into which we could welcome Jesus in the form of \u201cthe least of these.\u201d But the refugee resettlement organization I contacted regarding transitional shelter needs never followed through on their home inspection process \u2026 and our family and friends kept visiting \u2026 and our lives were busy.<\/p>\n

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Dorothy Day<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Eventually, the sense of urgency we\u2019d felt to utilize the space for God\u2019s poor subsided.<\/p>\n

When I heard about the family living on the street, I knew this was our chance to finally make our guestroom a true Jesus Room. Here was an opportunity to practice the radical hospitality that we believe is fundamental to Christianity.<\/p>\n

But, here\u2019s the thing: I really didn\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n

As I scrolled through the Facebook post, hoping to no avail that somebody else would volunteer, I became increasingly apprehensive. I came up with an unholy litany of reasons to say no: Our house isn\u2019t big enough for seven people; our schedule isn\u2019t very flexible so we won\u2019t be able to help them get to their appointments; I don\u2019t want strangers sleeping in the same house as my two young daughters.<\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s reasonable, I think, to be hesitant to bring strangers into a home with young children. But, as I previously reflected<\/a>, I don\u2019t want to use my daughters as an excuse to abide complacently in my comfort zone. In my heart, I did not believe that allowing this family to stay in our guestroom would put my daughters in danger.<\/p>\n

What, then, was my excuse? That it made me uncomfortable? Unfortunately, I concluded long ago that following Jesus is supposed<\/em> to be uncomfortable.<\/p>\n

So, my husband and I put the word out that this family could move into our guestroom. Since they did not have a working cell phone, we had to trust that their network of friends in the community would get the message to them.<\/p>\n

Meanwhile, we frantically cleaned the house; we bought baby food, diapers and extra sandwich fixings; we came up with a plan for establishing appropriate boundaries with the family. On an impulse, I hid our iPad, and hated myself a little bit for doing so.<\/p>\n

And then we waited.<\/p>\n

For most of a week we wondered when and, eventually, if <\/em>the family would arrive. Finally, they showed up at a community supper and we learned they\u2019d found some other friends to stay with.<\/p>\n

They would not be needing our Jesus Room after all.<\/p>\n

I was both immensely relieved and acutely disappointed. On the one hand, our daily routine would not be disrupted. On the other, we hadn\u2019t gotten to practice the Christian hospitality we so revere (at least in theory).<\/p>\n

Since then, I\u2019ve been reflecting on what it truly means to \u201cpractice hospitality.\u201d<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not something I\u2019m naturally good at (as demonstrated by my knee-jerk reaction of finding reasons to say no), but this experience has helped me to practice<\/em> hospitality\u2014to practice preparing my home for a stranger, to practice making the decision to step out of my comfort zone, to practice being welcoming in a Christ-like way.<\/p>\n

And, as with anything, the more we practice the better we become.<\/p>\n

Not only do I feel a renewed sense of urgency to make a Jesus Room out of our guestroom, I feel confident that when I\u2019m faced with another opportunity to \u201cwelcome the stranger,\u201d I will be less hesitant to say yes. Perhaps, one day, I\u2019ll even be able to say yes with a fully cheerful heart as Paul instructs us, in 2 Corinthians 9:7<\/a>, to do.<\/p>\n

Until then, I take comfort in the knowledge that\u2014while I am a far cry from a perfect Christian\u2014I am at least a practicing one.<\/p>\n

About the<\/strong><\/em> Rabble Rouser<\/strong><\/a>:<\/p>\n

\"Nicole-Steele-Woodridge-with-daughters\"Nicole Steele Wooldridge<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0is a friend of Sister Julia’s who writes from the Seattle, Washington, area. Her Jesus Room is still just a guestroom \u2026 for now.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"My husband and I recently made the difficult decision to open our guestroom to a family experiencing homelessness in our community. We heard about a mother, father and their infant\u00a0who were living on the streets and in dire need of help. A member of my husband\u2019s congregation posted on Facebook that the family, whom she...","protected":false},"author":51099403,"featured_media":7229,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","episode_type":"","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[698755598,115341],"tags":[19378034,50658,478480,2568,784,55625,622043,734079,401,406,20507,556148,69712,39932,8329,13920,24361,114694,45682,50584,4264],"series":[698756626],"class_list":["post-7226","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-christian-family-life","category-equity-and-justice-equity-and-justice","tag-2-corinthians-97","tag-cheerful","tag-christ-like","tag-christian","tag-comfort","tag-complacency","tag-dorothy-day","tag-excuse","tag-faith","tag-family","tag-good","tag-guestroom","tag-homelessness","tag-hospitality","tag-jesus","tag-poor","tag-practice","tag-refugees","tag-stranger","tag-uncomfortable","tag-welcome","series-messy-jesus-business"],"acf":[],"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/jesus-room-courtesy-nicole-steele-wooldridge.jpg","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/wp-content\/plugins\/seriously-simple-podcasting\/assets\/images\/no-album-art.png","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/feed\/podcast\/messy-jesus-business","embedCode":"

On practicing Christian hospitality<\/a><\/blockquote>