{"id":7040,"date":"2017-02-01T11:44:03","date_gmt":"2017-02-01T17:44:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/?p=7040"},"modified":"2026-02-26T13:44:07","modified_gmt":"2026-02-26T19:44:07","slug":"we-walk-together-reflections-of-the-womens-march","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/2017\/02\/01\/we-walk-together-reflections-of-the-womens-march\/","title":{"rendered":"We walk together: reflections of the Women’s March"},"content":{"rendered":"

Leading up to the Women\u2019s March on Washington last week, I noticed a lot of #WhyIMarch and also #WhyImNotMarching social media posts. Because the spirit, style and mission of the event\u2014seemingly driven by language of \u201creproductive rights\u201d (a new expression I\u2019ve not yet come to terms with)\u2014didn\u2019t resonate with me, I found my own feelings and conclusions undecided.<\/p>\n

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Adam and Eli marching (photo courtesy of Amy Nee-Walker)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

What attracted me was the immediate, massive response of women (and men) coming together to respond in an assertive but nonviolent way with their bodies (not just Tweeting and tagging). The ambiguity of the platform appealed to me too but also gave me pause for possible interpretation as inclusivity: many people feel wronged for different reasons and it\u2019s necessary to create a space where all can come together and voice their concern; not in a series of separate events but in unity.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not uncommon for the term unity to be mistaken as synonymous with sameness. In fact, unity requires diversity: many different people, beliefs and ideas coming together to form \u201ca complex whole.\u201d Unity is not clean and neat, it\u2019s messy and complicated. (Something we readers of Messy Jesus Business<\/em> should appreciate!) What finally tipped the scales for me was the presence of my family members, with varying political and religious views, joining their voices across the country. In the spirit of sisterhood and unity, I asked some of them to share their reflections of the march.<\/p>\n

Grace, who lives in Ohio and shared her home with a family of four (while in between jobs, after the birth of her second child), knows well what it means to practice hospitality:<\/strong><\/p>\n

I entered the Women\u2019s March in D.C. as a skeptical outsider, wanting to observe and understand even though I felt like I didn\u2019t quite belong. I wanted to stand up for dignity: for the right to dignity for women, Muslims, immigrants\u2014all those who have been demeaned and treated as \u201cless than\u201d in the rhetoric of our new president. As a Christian I take to heart the command given in Leviticus to welcome and love the stranger (Leviticus 19:33-34<\/a>).<\/em><\/p>\n

Yet because I believe dignity of life extends to the unborn, the newly formed life, I kept questioning if there was a place for someone like me\u2014pro-women, pro-equal rights, pro-intelligent sexual education, pro-supportive and affordable health care for women and pro-life\u2014in this march. I had a desire to stand in solidarity with my fellow women and men in a historic moment but based on the official platform of the march I felt in many ways my presence wasn\u2019t wanted.<\/em><\/p>\n

As I struggled I came to recognize that to remove oneself from a discussion because you disagree is to render your voice obsolete. What part can we play in inspiring change and perpetuating truth when we refuse to begin the conversation? Conversing is not to speak at someone; to spew statistics, Scripture, opinion, or fact and then write them off when they disagree. A conversation involves listening, giving and receiving. So I sought to observe and understand the varied reasons so many people felt they could stay silent no longer and among these many voices I heard and saw things that made my heart say, \u201cYes, I see you, I know how you are feeling. I feel the same way.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Ann Marie is a mother of three and long-time advocate for human rights who attended the march in Los Angeles wearing a Black Lives Matter shirt:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Placas-Nee girls marching\u00a0(photo courtesy of Amy Nee-Walker)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

BLACK LIVES MATTER means our neighbors live lives in which they are told they matter less than us, and we need to do something about it. At the very least we must recognize it’s true, it’s happening and it’s their experience instead of foolishly insisting “but we ALL MATTER.” Yes, WE ALL MATTER. That’s the point. We need to change society\u2014that they matter the same as us\u2014 till it rings true.<\/em><\/p>\n

I took my two\u00a0daughters, five and nine years old, to the march in L.A. because while we each have a voice now, we may not always. I may not fear for my immediate way of life or that of my blond-haired, blue-eyed children. We are safe and comfortable in so many ways. We haven\u2019t been attacked because of our religion, our skin color, our parents\u2019 country of origin. We may not have been threatened by Trump and his campaign promises, but our neighbors and fellow Americans have. So we went to speak out and lend our voices to theirs.<\/em><\/p>\n

Allison traveled to D.C. along with her husband (my brother), both compelled by dismay that a man with such obvious disdain for women, Muslims, people of color and the environment is the new president:<\/strong><\/p>\n

It felt like a momentous day just from the bodies present, the singing, the buzz of electricity. And amidst all this excitement, one thing stood out to me the most.<\/em><\/p>\n

We had been standing in the crowd for a couple of hours when a cry started. \u201cKaren! Karen!\u201d My husband and I joked \u201cYou\u2019re in a crowd of 500,000 people and you\u2019re trying to find Karen? Good luck.\u201d Then we heard Karen\u2019s son had been separated from her. A little boy lost his mom. We joined in the \u201cKaren\u201d shouts until she was found. Then we saw a group of women encircling a young boy, spreading the sea of people with their bodies, shouting \u201cWe\u2019ve got a lost kid!\u201d The women marched him backwards until he was reunited with his mom.<\/em><\/p>\n

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Amy and Penny marching (photo courtesy of Amy Nee-Walker)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

I keep thinking about the way those women protected Karen\u2019s son, a child none of them knew. The way ripples of \u201cKaren!\u201d flooded the human logjam. The way everyone worked together to solve a problem. The way I\u2019d been skeptical and my quick change of heart when I realized a child was in need. The way we all thought of our own children getting lost and needing help. That moment was a microcosm of the world in which we march.\u00a0 If we all shout \u201cKaren!\u201d loud and long enough, Karen or peace or human rights or equality can be found. We have the power to move ourselves with the best interest of our children in mind through the masses; to push ourselves to the front, and to let our leaders know that we will not let even one of us be lost, trampled, forgotten. We walk together. I have your back.<\/em><\/p>\n

As for me, I carried a sign my husband Ted and I had quickly assembled the morning of the march. Trying to decide upon words we could confidently stand behind and uphold, we settled on those\u00a0of the prophet, Micah: \u201cAct justly, love mercy, walk humbly.\u201d I\u2019ve carried these words\u2014as a challenge and a guide\u2014for most of my life. They indicate the spirit with which my husband and I resist the rhetoric and actions of Trump, who embodies the exact antithesis of justice, mercy and humility.<\/p>\n

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Photo courtesy of Amy Nee-Walker<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

The march was one opportunity to join our voices against what was only rhetoric and obscure proposals but which, over the course of last week, became executive orders and inhumane threats. I raise my voice again\u2014sturdy on the foundation of the millions around the world with whom I stood in solidarity last Saturday (and all the more so, those who have been dedicating their lives to truth and compassion long before) to speak a resounding NO:<\/p>\n

NO to banning people from this country because of their religion or nationality!<\/p>\n

NO to dishonoring treaties and desecrating sacred lands!<\/p>\n

NO to militarizing police and marginalizing people of color!<\/p>\n

NO to torture!<\/p>\n

And with Hebrew Scripture and teachings of Jesus prodding me forward, I dare to proclaim a determined, hopeful YES:<\/p>\n

YES to welcoming foreigners and sharing with those in need!<\/p>\n

YES to reverence and care for marvelous Earth and the creatures inhabiting her!<\/p>\n

YES to defying oppressive powers and violence!<\/p>\n

YES to recognizing that real security comes through accepting our individual vulnerability, embracing collective connectedness and choosing to care for one another!<\/p>\n

ABOUT THE RABBLE ROUSER<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Nee-Walker<\/a>Amy Nee-Walker<\/em><\/a><\/strong> grew up in the middle of a large and lovely family in Central Florida.\u00a0Living into questions about truth and love has led\u00a0her to the Catholic Worker, the Catholic Church, her incredible\u00a0husband, two audacious, adorable children, and (for the time being) a\u00a0home in the hills of Appalachia.<\/em><\/p>\n

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We walk together: reflections of the Women’s March<\/a><\/blockquote>