{"id":6141,"date":"2016-04-18T10:35:24","date_gmt":"2016-04-18T15:35:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/?p=6141"},"modified":"2026-02-26T13:46:36","modified_gmt":"2026-02-26T19:46:36","slug":"ugandan-faith-lesson-1-always-room-at-the-inn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/2016\/04\/18\/ugandan-faith-lesson-1-always-room-at-the-inn\/","title":{"rendered":"Ugandan faith lesson #1: always room at the inn"},"content":{"rendered":"

Faith lessons from my Ugandan family<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Editor\u2019s note:<\/em><\/strong> This is the first blog post in the five-part series \u201cFaith lessons from my Ugandan family\u201d by <\/em>Messy Jesus Business guest contributor\/Rabble Rouser Nicole Steele Wooldridge<\/a> about her experiences in Mbale, Uganda. Stay tuned throughout this week to experience the next four installments of Nicole\u2019s faith lessons from Africa.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nearly 10 years ago, my life and faith were transformed by the experience of volunteering in Mbale, Uganda. Though I only lived there for three months, each day burst at the seams with discoveries, challenges and delights, such that those three months occupy an enormous share of my life\u2019s key memories.<\/p>\n

A few weeks ago I returned to Uganda with my husband, finally following through on a long-repeated promise to visit my beloved host family. As we danced, laughed, and prayed with our Ugandan family, we were blessed and renewed by the African spirit, a spirit which\u2014I am convinced\u2014suffuses anyone who has the privilege of visiting that beautiful place.<\/p>\n

I could probably write a book about the ways in which my Ugandan family has informed and challenged my own discipleship, but I have narrowed them down to five major faith lessons.<\/p>\n

Faith lesson #1: always room at the inn<\/strong><\/h3>\n

My host family\u2019s house is a veritable revolving door of visitors and guests. Family, friends, friends-of-friends, co-workers, community partners and complete strangers show up unannounced throughout the day, oftentimes requiring a hearty meal and\/or a place to sleep.<\/p>\n

They are always, always<\/em> welcomed with enthusiastic hospitality.<\/p>\n

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Nicole with Delight, host family’s youngest sibling<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Part of this, of course, is cultural: the people of Uganda are renowned across Sub-Saharan Africa for their incredible hospitality. Upon entering any home, you are sure to receive a vigorous greeting: \u201cOooooh, you are MOST welcome!\u201d is followed by an exchange in which your host clasps your hands for the duration of your conversation. At first, I found this constant physical touch to be somewhat disconcerting, but I came to love the way it signified the full focus of the person with whom I was talking. In Uganda, I never felt like I was competing with a smart phone (and, yes, they do exist there!) for someone\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n

My host family, however, takes Ugandan hospitality to another level. Far beyond cultural expectations, they invite people into their home with relentless joy \u2026 and into their hearts with unquestioning love. They set a place for their guests at the table, and prepare for them a mattress complete with mosquito net; they invite their visitors into their evening prayer ritual, and thank God for their presence among them. They do this over and over again. Every. Single. Day.<\/p>\n

I cannot imagine how exhausted I would be if people dropped in on me with even half the frequency they do to my Ugandan family \u2026 But that\u2019s probably because I tend to fixate on frivolous things when I am playing hostess.<\/p>\n

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host family compound<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

My Ugandan family does not fret over unwashed dishes or un-mopped floors; they do not panic if someone has to eat standing up; they do not offer superficial apologies for their cooking. Their guests are not seen or treated as an interruption to plans, because guests are always <\/em>planned for. My host family takes seriously Saint Peter\u2019s exhortation to \u201cBe hospitable to one another without complaining.\u201d<\/em> (1 Peter 4:9) Indeed, they have created in their home a culture of hospitality<\/em> in which hugging yet another visitor at the end of the day is never a burden, but rather a blessed opportunity to extend their family embrace that much wider.<\/p>\n

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host family neighborhood<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

For reflection: <\/strong>What could I do to foster an attitude of unbridled hospitality in my home and in my heart, such that every opportunity to invite someone in is welcomed as a blessing?<\/p>\n

Author bio:<\/em><\/strong> Nicole Steele Wooldridge<\/a> is a friend of Sister Julia\u2019s who writes from the Seattle, Washington area. She is profoundly grateful to her Ugandan host family and friends for changing her life a decade ago and continuing to make her a better person today.<\/em><\/p>\n

Wanyala ni inkugana naabi!<\/p>\n

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