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 \u201cYour ordinary acts of love and hope point to the extraordinary promise that every human life is of inestimable value.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Desmond Tutu<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I was solo parenting on Sunday.  My husband and son were out of town.  I was flanked by daughters Nim, six, lolling around in the pew to my left and asking \u201cwhen\u2019s bread?\u201d and Pen, nine, to my right, grabbing a pencil and prayer request sheet as she\u2019d seen me do to jot down some notes. Our pastor was highlighting the life of Dietrich Bonhoefer<\/a>, who lived through the rise of the Third Reich and died at the hands of the state because of his resistance to their genocidal ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I noted that Bonhoefer believed it was the duty of the church to not only tend to the wounds of the oppressed, but to meet injustice at its root; that silence is complicity and neutrality is an impossibility.  He believed, I wrote, that the church is to stand with the marginalized and be prepared to pay the cost.  On her paper Pen wrote, \u201cBonhoefer taught us to always tell the truth no matter what.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

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After church, I took the girls to the farmers market.  It\u2019s that time of year when the market explodes with color and fragrance.  Most importantly, it\u2019s peach season, which is like a kind of holiday to us. I remind the girls how to select the most delicious fruits, gently checking the skin for breaks or bruises and breathing in deeply for that scent of sweetness.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Near the checkout counter, we were captivated by a display case of handmade goods, including beautifully printed, aromatic soaps.  Nim chose a bar of intricate pink roses and Pen a blue-green garden scene with a butterfly.  In the car, I passed the phone back so they could document these unexpected treasures.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

During the drive home, I relished the sound of  their oo-ing and ah-ing and joking and joy.  I thought, I wish everyone could be this rich<\/em>. Rich enough to have more than their basic needs met; enough to enjoy the luxury of buying peaches even if they are $2.49 a pound and then to see something beautiful and extravagant and be able to say, yes.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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“What does it mean to be a moral person in this upside down world?” <\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

The next day, I was listening to the radio on the way to the school where I work as a reading coach.  I heard the news that an air force training jet in Bangladesh crashed into a school and killed at least twenty people, with many more injured, most students.  Is there a phrase more chilling than, \u201ckilled at least<\/em>\u201d? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

News of deaths at a school have a different kind of weight, suffocating and heavy.\u00a0 Children broken, bruised, and bloodied.\u00a0 Children who we are meant to keep safe.\u00a0 Whether it\u2019s a horrific accident like this, or a horrific recurring event like the chronic mass shooting in the US, or the targeted bombings of schools and shelters in Gaza, a child dying is not an abstraction.\u00a0 A James Baldwin quote articulates my feeling more perfectly than I know how, \u201cThe children are always ours, every single one of them, all over the globe; and I am beginning to suspect that whoever is incapable of recognizing this may be incapable of morality.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The day\u2019s news was a one-two punch with the next story being on the latest US-backed Israeli attacks on Palestinians seeking aid in Gaza.  Perhaps right there is the more chilling phrase, \u201ckilled seeking aid.<\/em>\u201d  Over the last year, I\u2019ve watched daily life there play out more grotesquely than any horror film. I see children dying every day, turning the screen quickly away as my six-year-old peers over my shoulder and asks, \u201cwhat are you watching?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I feel almost like I live parallel lives. One tuned into and preoccupied with a humanitarian crisis more relentless and devastating than I could have ever imagined.  So awful, I cannot conjure adequate words.  The other, a simple, mostly sweet existence; marveling at the miracle of food from our garden and morning snuggles with my three children, tinkering with new literacy techniques for my students and reffing sibling squabbles. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve struggled to know how to respond to the indescribable suffering.  I want to tell the hard truth to my kids yet also to shield them from trauma and protect their precious, fleeting childhood. I donate money to soup kitchens, not knowing if it\u2019s of any value\u2013was the food I helped purchase left to rot, prohibited, along with baby formula and medical supplies, from crossing the border to reach the hungry and wounded while the US and IDF dole out murder and manipulation in the guise of aid?  What does it mean to be a moral person in this upside down world? <\/p>\n\n\n

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The late John Lewis is known for saying that at such a time as this, people of faith are called upon to make \u201cgood trouble.\u201d  But what can I do, when the problem is so far away, and yet, so embedded into the politics and business and even religious life here in the US, the country that provides the bombs and the money and the political shield that makes it all possible? <\/p>\n\n\n

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I can pray, of course, but it\u2019s been a minute since I\u2019ve believed in an interventionist God.  Maybe a God who might stir the spirits of those who are meant to be the body of Christ \u2013 those hands and feet that have been explicitly instructed to give bread and water to such as these. And not to kill.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One thing I definitely believe is my image is not more of God, nor is my life or my children’s lives more precious than anyone, anywhere. I am not more worthy than any other because of the circumstances of my birth.  There isn\u2019t any reason I am more entitled to this tender moment, to this breath, to kiss my kids goodnight.  I think anyone who supposes there are certain lives that are more significant than others are supposing out of fear or guilt so they don\u2019t have to be confronted with the sacredness of every life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And with good reason, it is a frightful and a shameful thing to know that we are all equally worthy of sustenance, love, comfort; of death too when it comes to it.  Because there they are\u2013the other mothers\u2013watching their children\u2019s soft faces turn sharp and sallow, listening to as their breath grows shallow..  And here I am, buying sweet, fresh peaches and fancy soap; listening to my boisterous, rosy-cheeked daughters laugh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At our web site<\/a> you can read more by this author<\/a> and more about human dignity<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ABOUT THE AUTHOR<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Amy Nee-Walker<\/strong> grew up in the middle of a large and lovely family in Central Florida. Living into questions about truth and love has led her to the Catholic Worker Movement, the Catholic Church, her incredible husband, three audacious, adorable children, and (for the time being) a home in the hills of Appalachia.

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Of Fullness and Famine<\/a><\/blockquote>