{"id":1305,"date":"2011-06-16T10:20:01","date_gmt":"2011-06-16T15:20:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/?p=1305"},"modified":"2026-02-26T13:54:33","modified_gmt":"2026-02-26T19:54:33","slug":"fascination-of-the-mundane","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/customwordpresssites.com\/mjb\/2011\/06\/16\/fascination-of-the-mundane\/","title":{"rendered":"Fascination of the mundane"},"content":{"rendered":"

Guest blogger: Elizabeth Diedrich<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cHola. Hello. How are you?\u201d For the past two years every conversation I have had with Carlos has been the exactly the same. \u201cI am well. How are you?\u201d Or every once in a while I will respond in Spanish. \u201cBuena. Como estas?\u201d Then, Carlos in his heavy accent laughs at me and says, \u201cGood. Thank you.\u201d You have candy for throat?\u201d I hand him his chough drops and he leaves the office.<\/p>\n

Around Andr\u00e9 House <\/a>everyone knows Carlos. He has a very distinct voice and he has some version of the same conversation with everyone. Actually, he has the same conversation with a person each time he sees that person. This means I may say \u201cHello. How are you?\u201d with Carlos five times a day. Two years of the same conversation. I never really thought about this.<\/p>\n

Then one day we had a different conversation.<\/p>\n

\"Pencil,<\/a><\/p>\n

It was just Carlos and me in the office and he asked for a pencil, eraser and pencil sharpener. He told me he likes to draw. He picked up a small piece of paper, a piece no larger than a playing card, and sat in front of me at the desk and drew me a picture. He drew a simple picture of reeds, a fish, birds, a scene from a pond. I was mesmerized as he drew. It was not his drawing that was mesmerizing; it was that after two years of exactly the same conversation Carlos was now a different person to me. He had learned my name two years ago and had practiced many times saying it correctly. Today, as his drawing was finished he took a second piece of paper and practiced writing my name. Eight times he practiced writing my name.<\/p>\n

It is easy for life to become mundane. It is easy to become caught up the daily grind. It is easy to follow the in and out of a daily schedule. How often do you sit down at the end of the day and you cannot even remember everything that you did throughout the day? I think this is especially true in relationships. It is easy to become static in relationships. I can often see this very clearly in community. After 10 months together we can exchange thoughts without words, we can predict when a person will not be able to follow through, we know each others\u2019 likes and dislikes and can read each other with fairly good accuracy. This brings comfort and fluidity to our daily work.<\/p>\n

Yet, it also inhibits us from challenging each other and being open to listening.<\/p>\n

Similarly with family or friends, often conversations operate on a superficial level and lack the depth that brings about new ideas and the possibility of transformation. I think what we need more of is a healthy, childlike fascination with our daily events and the people in our lives. Fascination is a strong word, but I think it is the best one to describe what is needed to make a relationship flourish.<\/p>\n

In the preface of The Tipping Point<\/em> <\/a>Malcolm Gladwell writes: \u201cOur instinct as humans, after all, is to assume that most things are not interesting. We flip through the channels on the television and reject ten before we settle on one. We go to a bookstore and look at twenty novels before we pick the one we want. We filter and rank and judge.\u201d Gladwell suggests that we must move beyond our human instinct and develop a constant consciousness to our lack of knowledge of each other in order to gives us the freedom to continue to learn and transform relationships.<\/p>\n

Furthermore, a constant fascination of apparently mundane events grants us the ability to see the miracles of our daily lives. It may seem awkward to try and hold a conscious fascination with the world, but if you take a moment, take a breath, and stop to wonder and awe miracles will appear everywhere.<\/p>\n

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Fascination of the mundane<\/a><\/blockquote>